The Boys and The Cat

The boys have a problem with the cat. The cat likes stuffed animals. The boys liked stuffed animals. The boys do not like cat slobber (they insist they can smell it) on their stuffed animals. Every time they catch the cat with a stuffed animal (frequently), they get hysterical. Seriously so!

They rush to us and demand that we wash the stuffed animal. We wash it. The cat gets it again. Or we leave it on the washroom counter and the cat retrieves it from there and plays with it. One afternoon I was sitting at my computer and I noticed the cat trotting down the hall with something in his mouth. Taking a close look I realized it was one of the boys' stuffed dogs. I chased the cat down and returned it to the laundry room and shut the door. He's relentless.

A few nights ago Bentley came howling into our bedroom with his orange teddy bear and little moose. The cat had gotten them and slobbered on them. I tried reasoning with him. You let the cat lick your hair and you don't insist on a shower immediately afterwards, how is it different when the cat chews on your stuffed animals? Bentley was not open to reason. The animals had to be washed(yet again)and he also demanded that the cat be banned from his bedroom permanently.

I had to do damage control. I didn't want the cat to stay public enemy number one. "Why weren't the stuffed animals in your pillow case?" I asked. (That's where the boys have taken to hiding their favorite stuffed animals to protect them.) Bentley said he had too many favorites and they made his pillow lumpy. I was so done with this crazy conversation. "What if I give you a pillow case just for your stuffed animals? Then can the cat come in your bedroom again?" "Yes!" Crisis resolved. For now.



Notice that the cat is hiding under something. He KNOWS he's not supposed to be chewing on the poor little dog.

The Birthday Day!

Belated, but here it is!

Viva and Jake turned FOUR this year!  I can't believe it, they're little people and not just crazed toddlers.  Funny how that happens.  When I asked Jake what his plans are for being four he told me "... well, next I will turn 5!  and then 6, and then 7, and then 10!"  Hmmmm.  I hope he slows down for me, just a bit.  :-)

The big day was a Sunday this year, which is fun (not!).  We headed off to morning church, and then made cake and ate cake in the afternoon.  The kids have cake and presents linked together in their heads (it's a good pairing, after all!) and what's the point in waiting until late in the evening to have the gifts, right?!  We had hamburgers later in the evening, as that is a favorite meal choice with everyone.

And now... the photo diary.

Bentley worked hard to make them birthday cards.  Here is one of my favorite:

Sweet brother, right?!

The cake!  Grandma made Viva a delicious strawberry cake, and Jake requested a rainbow cake without frosting just like Bentley's... that was nice of him, (and deliberate I believe) as Bentley wont' eat frosting.  :)

There was also cake cutting.  That is even more important than eating the cake, you know.  To a small child at least.  Here's Jake, with his (plastic) knife - come on, Mom... get on with it!

Love his expression in this one too.  "Viva, why are you cutting such a SMALL piece?!"

After cake there were, of course, presents!

and, just because, another picture (or two) of my two favorite four year olds:

and Viva - modeling her BEAUTIFUL crown which her brother Bentley had spent considerable time cutting and taping together to give her for her birthday:

It was a fun day!  By bedtime it was definitely time for bed - skipping rest time, getting up early, and the excitement of a big day are a bit much for anyone to handle.  And then on Wednesday we went up to hang with Grandma Karen and Uncle Ty (Grandpa Tim is traveling right now) and have a 2nd birthday bash with cupcakes and gifts.  How lucky can 2 little kids be?!

Happy birthday, kidlets!  We love you lots and lots and then even more than that!

Viva and the Cat

Me: "Let him go, Viva... !"

Vivw: "I can't, he is just too furry!"

Isn't she a sweet girl? I still don't completely get why that cat doesn't spend more time with her.... smoothered via love?

The Yearly Chair Shot!

From the birthday day, a bit of a belated post.  A look back at 2 of my favorite peeps through the years!

Paper Artwork

We go through reams of construction paper in our household. We let the kids use as much as they want for whatever they want. Surprisingly enough, they've never abused that privilege. Some days they draw, some days they cut. The past couple of weeks has seen a lot of cutting.

One Sunday Viva brought home a set of finger puppets from Primary (church Sunday school). Bentley liked the idea of finger puppets, so he got out a pen, tape, paper, and scissors and went to work. After the first puppet he wanted the others to be the same size. He asked me for help. I showed him how to use his first one as pattern for later ones. Instead he recruited me as cutter.



The following week Jake decided he and everyone else in the house needed bookmarks. He cut book marks of every size. He gave some to everyone. He cut extras for himself. He left a pile of bookmarks out on the counter overnight. Kara wanted to throw them out, but she wisely just moved them to the mudroom. The next morning Jake demanded to know where his bookmarks were. Kara tried to tell him he didn't need bookmarks since he couldn't read. He didn't fall for that lame argument. She had to give him back all his bookmarks. (She claims she threw out two and he didn't notice.)


All the kids have been making tape and paper piece animals. Kara wrote about Bentley's pterodactyl a week or so ago. After that Jake and Viva were inspired to make animals, too. Viva made a dragon.


We need to buy more Scotch tape at Costco. We tried an off-brand tape, but Bentley said it just wasn't any good. It was much harder to get off the dispenser.

P.S. Kara asked me to include these three fine examples of Jake's creative eye and great cutting skills. He produced these three animals (fish, elephant, duck) all one his own.

Summer Dress

What Viva is CLEARLY lacking is dresses (slight sarcasm), so I decided to make her one.  She helped me pick out fabric and was quite excited!  A simple pattern, but simple seems to be what I can manage best.  Thanks to the cute model I think it turned out well.  And?  I learned how to shirr fabric.  Quite exciting.  :-)

She wore it 2 days in a row - quite the compliment, I think.  And she's told me to get working on more.  Right away.  I love the enthusiasm, she's certainly an easy customer to work with!

Birthday Pics!

Since the twins birthday fell on a Sunday this year, they were dressed up all pretty when we made it home from church. I thought a few shots of them outside would be nice. Unfortunately the newly four year olds were not feeling completely cooperative after sitting for three hours of church! Ah well! We did get a few shots.

Here they are with some trademark funny faces:

and looking cute:

and here is the older brother, looking rather handsome next to the blue poppies:

I can't believe how big they all are, and I hear children just keep growing every year... :). Scary and exciting at the same time; I look forward to the next year!

Celebrating DAD!

My belated Father's Day post.  :-)

Matt had to travel for work on Father's Day this year, so we celebrated a day early.  The children got him some presents that were great for him AND them:

1) M&Ms - to help him eat
2) a camping air mattress - to encourage him to keep going out with them
3) legos - to build with them

They have good taste, right?!

I tried interviewing them about their Father.  Some of them (one of them?!) was more verbose than the others.  Ah well.  Here's what they had to say.

I asked Jake what he likes to do with his Dad.  He said:

"I like that Daddy builds legos.  I like playing games and going camping with Daddy."

Jake can be a man of few words, so that was that from Jake.

Next up was Viva.  She is not a girl of few words, but she is one who refuses to engage when asked to.  Ah well.  Here's what she had to say about Dad:

"I like to play with him.  And then play with him more."

I prompted her for details.  So she added:

"I like reading books with him, and I like when he gives me M&Ms."

I finished off with Bentley.  His thoughts:

"I like to play with legos with Daddy, play outside with him, and go on adventures.  Daddy likes to play with us, work, and eat chocolate chip cookies.  I like that Daddy is silly and builds things with me."

And there you have it.  The thoughts of the little tikes.

Here they are opening gifts on our Saturday Father's Day:

 

Seward Trip: Jake & Daddy's Adventure Day

Last year Bentley had the chance to go on the Alaska Railroad with Daddy and my cousin Ben down to Seward, where they did a cruise of Resurrection Bay with a stop at Fox Island for lunch.  He had a grand time and talked it up; so Jake has been asking for this same adventure experience.  Today was the day!  For the last few days Jake has been reticent about going (the joys of being a terrible three?!), but luckily he started coming back around to the idea yesterday evening.  And he got up like a champ at 5:20 am and told me that he was going to have a "super fun time"!  I asked him if he would tell me all about it upon his return, and he said "No, I can't.  We're going to be gone for a LONG time so I can't tell you everything we do".

Hmmmph!

Well, they say a picture is worth a thousand words.  Here are a few photos from Daddy's iPhone that they sent me during the day.

On the way:

Checking out the dining car on the train (apparently bacon was the highlight):

Taking a rest on the train.  He told his Dad "there was just going to be more mountains, trees, and water, so it was ok to sleep now!"

Made it onto the boat, lookin' for those whales:

Made it, off the boat and back to the railroad (isn't he cute?!):

They saw a whale and a blow hole, some marine animals (sea lions) and birds (bald eagles and puffins), and ate lots of good food.  I sent a camera with Jake, but Matt says Jake was so busy looking around wide eyed that he didn't have time for the camera.  :-)

Jake brought home postcards for his brother & sister and reports that it was a good trip.  Thanks for the fun time, Daddy!

She styled herself....

I think she is trying to use her barrettes to create a dreadlock look? I'm not sure. Overall though, the look works for her!

Viva on Her 4th Birthday

VIVA IS:

ALL GIRL
She likes pink, purple, bows, frills, nail polish, ice cream, etc. She likes princesses. She doesn't much care for boy interests.

CURIOUS
She is very observant. She spends hours looking at books. When she's outside she is on the go from one end of the yard to the other marching along the brick retaining wall, climbing the dirt pile, or checking out the raspberry patch.

TACTILE
She loves to get her hands on and in things. She loves to play at the water table and in the swimming pool. She likes to play with her food at meal time sans utensils. This evening she was eating ice cream with her fingers. Don't ask.

STUBBORN
When she sets her mind to do something--or not do it--she sticks with her plan despite any threats or punishment doled out by parents and grandparents. Viva cooperates when she wants to and only when she wants to. You have to admire such intransigence even when it makes you mad.

ADVENTUROUS
She's always up for a trip. A trip anywhere--the grocery store, the playground, the mall, the campground, the church, the zoo, South Dakota, Idaho. Sign her up. She likes to get out of the house and see new things.

TOUGH
She's not tender-hearted or tender-skinned. She doesn't cry very often. She doesn't ask for hugs very often either. Our Viva is quite self-reliant.

OUR DRESS-UP DOLL
While she prefers to pick her own outfits, she's a good sport about letting us choose her clothes every now and then. She loves to wear dresses and we love to see her in dresses, so it's the perfect match.

QUIET
Not all the time, but a lot of the time. She tends to fly under the radar doing her own thing. She isn't one to ask for assistance. She doesn't generally ask you to play games with her or help her build with blocks or Legos. She prefers to work on projects alone. However, when she throws a temper tantrum she does it at full volume.

A WONDERFUL SLEEPER
We LOVE Viva's sleep ethic. Once she is out, she stays out. She sleeps late. Warning: You do not want to wake her up before she's ready to get up. Not pleasant. Not at all.

CAPABLE
She is often the first of the trio to accomplish basic skills. Sometimes she astounds me. Did you do that yourself?!

PERPLEXING
She does a few things that I find disturbing. She still talks about eating bugs. I haven't challenged her on this issue because I'm afraid she'll follow through.

CREATIVE
She is not as prolific an artist as her brothers, but she has her moments. She'd like to paint more than we allow her to. (Painting is a supervised activity; drawing is not supervised.) I think Viva would love sculpting, but we haven't done much with clay.

INDEPENDENT
I kind of covered this under stubborn, but I wanted to expand on this trait. Viva likes to pick her own path. Kara is worried that she won't make a very willing learning partner. How will we teach her to read or do simple sums? It'll be interesting. Viva loves books, so maybe we won't have to do much more to educate her than keep her supplied with a wide range of reading material.

Jake on His 4th Birthday

JAKE IS:

ALL BOY
He loves balls, cars, blocks, and dinosaurs. He likes blue jeans and t-shirts. He likes to fight with swords.

EXTREME
Extremely cute. Extremely fragile--his hold on his temper is often precarious. If we don't give him what he wants when he wants it, it gets ugly. At times he is a little powder keg of seething frustration. (It's not easy being a little kid with grownups calling all the shots.)

SUSPICIOUS
He usually keeps his distance from people outside the family. He doesn't like new situations. While Jake likes to go on adventures, he prefers adventures to places he's familiar with.

FASTIDIOUS
He hates it when his hands are dirty or wet. Whenever the basketball rolls into a puddle, he insists on wiping it dry. He freaks out when he gets mud or grass stains on his jeans.

PASSIONATE
When he does something, he does it thoroughly. No half measures or quick interests for Jake. His vehicle memory tiles were his favorite things for months. Then he took up checkers and has stuck with that for months. He has liked monkeys for two years now. He spends hours cutting up paper and drawing loops on his pictures.

ENERGETIC
He's always running (and slipping!) across the hardwood floors in our home. When he's angry you want to keep a safe distance from him because his feet and hands starting flying.

TENDER
He is both tender-hearted and tender-skinned. He doesn't like being teased. Whenever he runs into anything or falls down, he needs to be comforted.

LOUD
When he wants something he gets in your face and loudly tells you what it is. When Jake's mad, the whole house knows about.

ADORABLE
It's the cheeks. And the voice. And the personality.

CONTRARY
Sometimes he is very contrary. When you ask him a question he'll answer the opposite of what's expected and stick to his answer. "No, I don't like that." Seriously?! So not true.

TOO MUCH
Sometimes Jake is more than even Jake can take. Living with himself can be difficult. We can take a break from Jake now and then, but Jake can't.

EXPRESSIVE
He is the very expressive and given to using hyperbole. "I just love you too much, kitty." "That's my favorite thing in the whole world." He makes his statements with total conviction. I wish I could remember more of them because it's so amusing hearing them come out of the mouth of a little kid.

ARTISTIC
Jake does a great job drawing. His etchings are quite elaborate. He spends a good deal of time on each work, sometimes doing both the back and the front.

A FANTASTIC HUGGER
He gives the best hugs--sometimes his hugs are so awesome you feel strangled. He likes to cuddle with the people he loves.

Lego Castle

Bentley has been working diligently on this Lego creation for the past week or more. His dad has been out of town and he has sorely missed him as a building partner. Bentley did most all the work himself, but he wanted the input of a male advisor. By Wednesday of this week he started begging his opa to come upstairs and help him with his castle. Opa has been assigned a number of home projects to work on and he didn't have any free time to help Bentley. Bentley was very disappointed. Finally last night I gave in and released my worker bee (opa) from helping me so that he could assist Bentley. Bentley was very happy. I'm sure opa was, too. Would you rather paint the garage or play with Legos?

Party Prep

The twins' birthday is tomorrow! We, of course, have had lots of discussions about it over the past week or more. Gifts have been arriving--a big package from Grandma Vicki and various packages from amazon.com ordered by mommy and grandma (me). Yesterday we all went to the store and Viva and Jake picked out two birthday balloons (a birthday tradition at our house) and crepe paper. Viva chose pastel purple crepe paper (the only shade of purple for sale) and Jake chose pastel blue. The two choices go together well, but they don't match our stockpile of bold colored tissue paper decorations. The children don't care.

The twins are not having a party with friends. They haven't asked for one and their mommy says four year olds don't appreciate birthday parties enough to make the bother worth it. (A valid observation.) They have asked about a piñata, but I've told them piñatas hold way too much candy for just three children. I was thinking we could dangle a bag of Skittles and let the children whack away at it, but my housemates think that would make too big a mess. Perhaps they are right.

Today we have to finish putting up the decorations and start wrapping gifts. Tomorrow--on the big day!--we will bake cakes. Jake asked for a rainbow cake. Viva told her mommy she should pick what kind to make for her. Since I've volunteered to make Viva's cake, I decided it will be strawberry. I thought about beet, but what if beet cake tastes as awful as it sounds? I better save that experiment for a nonbirthday event.

Citibloc Fun

Bentley received some Citiblocks for Christmas this past year. Citiblocks are long thin "sticks" of wood, and you can build some pretty complex structures with them. Recently they have become of great interest. Bentley pulled them out and got his worker (aka Grandma) busy building with him. Or for him in some cases... management skills are important, right?! The blocks came with a book of ideas for building, ranging from doable to "YEAH RIGHT"!

In the past few days he has started building some of his own creations - car garages, storage "boxes",... It is fun to see his creativity as he plays with a new type of building material!

Jake: the cherubic and terrifying one

If you were to scroll back through recent blog posts, a disturbing lack of Jake may come to your attention. Why is that? Well... I like to focus on the positive. And Jake has been having a rough week or two. My theory is that he realized his birthday is FAST approaching and he never fully explored the terrible threes, which seemed a shame to him since he wasn't very good at being a terrible two either. So he wanted to give it a go!

Here he is at the playground - isn't he cute? He wanted the big red swing chair and didn't want to wait. So he threw himself down on the rocks to wail. His older brother handed the chair over (sweet, yes... teaching him? no!).

I love this kid. He can be SO sweet! And he gives the best hugs. But when he gets upset, he can go a little ballistic. You know... the type of three year old in need of some anger management training. I'm sure you've met at least one like him! Last week I checked out three new books on parenting boys from the library. We'll see if they bring wisdom!

The sad part is you can see the melt downs coming. But you can't always avoid them. It starts with a question or a demand, at the end of which he says "yes? YES? YES?" (his sales technique to ensure buy in for his plan - he's going to do well in sales when he's older!). Sometimes, being the adult & parent, I say "no, Jake" instead of the wanted "yes". And then... 10, 20, 30 minutes later... well. He has a hard time recovering.

He does a GREAT job of being a terrifying three year old. I've tried to tell him he's defintely a winner at it and can move on, but he's having none of that. So maybe on Sunday we'll move into the fabulous fours?

To be fair... he is sweet a good amount of the time. It's just that like the little girl with the little curl in the middle of her forehead... when he rages it is amazing! He is so full of passion! He can stomp his feet and wail like a pro (something neither Bentley or Viva have ever attempted, so I am still amused by it)!

But to document the other sides of Jake, here are a few cute things I love lately about him:

1) he carries around his scriptures and asks us to read to him from them. he does this multiple times a day! he is seeking solace and a calm center from the Lord, perhaps?! :-)
2) on the subject of God, he is also ALWAYS eager to say the prayers. we have to remind him he can't pray WHILE other people are!
3) cute phrases he uses: "I certainly can!", "I am THAT clever!" "Oh yes I will!" - all said with appropriate amounts of attiude, of course
4) he is a quick helper - if I ask him to run and grab me something he's off like a bullet and does it!
5) he naps! okay - not a "cute thing", but certainly something I appreciate. this child needs his naps. they make him happy. and I am a fan of children that nap, so it's a win-win
5) last, but not least, he gives great big hugs. you can't beat that!

"Wallet" Shots!

For Father's Day Opa helped me line the kids up and tell them to look serious for some new "studio" style portraits of the little trouble makers!  I think they turned out awesome, thanks for the help Opa!

One Lucky Kid...

As I've mentioned before, the cat has a few odd ideas about his role in grooming my children. Here's some photo proof:

Notice the ever so slightly extended claws in the paw resting on Bentley's head. To keep him in place, right?!

You may wonder why we took a photo instead of stopping this bizzare show of affection. There's really no point in stopping the cat, as the kids encourage him... they like it/think he is funny. From talking to other cat owners apparently our cat is not the only hair licking feline out there. So I say....

whatever! Don't sweat the small stuff, right?!

P.S. - don't be too alarmed. We use soap on that hair. Frequently. :)

Alaskan Boy

It was 63 and sunny this evening, and Bentley thought this was just way too hot. Biking and basketball lead to this:

He said he was just "way too hot".

Good thing he doesn't live in Texas! Silly kid.

P.S. - isn't his tattooed arm nice? That's dinosaur row there.