Bumper Bowling

Today Kara took the kidlets and met their friends Maria, Daniel and David at the mall where they bowled. I went along to help with crowd control. Bentley, Jake, and Viva have played Wii bowling, but they'd never set foot in a bowling alley before. It was an adventure.

The smallest size of shoe the alley had was a size 8, which was fine for both Bentley and Jake, but not so great for Viva. Even with two pairs of socks, the shoes were two or more sizes too large. Fortunately she was sporting a particularly cute hairdo today, so no one had any cause to look at her oversized feet.

Daniel and David are old pros at bumper bowling so they led off. Then Bentley, Jake, and Viva gave it a try. Viva scored a spare her first time out. She then scored another one and a third one! She was doing quite well, so I'm not sure why her mom decided to introduced her to the ramp (see photo). She quite liked the ramp, so she chose to use it for the rest of the game and she did not do as well, although with three spares at the start of the game she had a lead that none of the boys could overtake. (Viva is the only one who used the ramp.)

The bowling balls the kids used were six pounders. The boys could lift them quite easy and Viva managed it, too, but it was more difficult for her. The kids enjoyed bowling and were eager to take their turns. For the first half of the game things went pretty smoothly, but then they discovered the reset button on the side of the ball return and that was pressed a couple of times. In addition to that, the automatic scoring function at the alley had some problems. It scored a spare for David even though two pins were left standing and Bentley was credited with a strike with three remaining pins. Very odd.

Bentley says he's going to get his dad to take him bowling on their next adventure date.

Jake by another name

As mentioned before, I'm sure, Viva likes to go by princess.  She doesn't understand she can be Viva AND a princess, so whenever you ask her if she's a Viva, or if she's pretty, or if she's smart.... you just get "no, I'm a princess!".

Bentley is happy to go by Bentley.  That's cool with me.  I like the name.

Jake?  He doesn't mind the name Jake, but he also goes by monkey.  I found him a monkey shirt for Christmas, as he is THAT positive that a monkey is what he is.  Today he reached the next "level" of *monkiness* - he has convinced his nursery leaders at church that he is a monkey.  Here's the proof:

Apparently when they put his name on the paper he objected to it just saying Jake. Now they know it should say monkey too...

:-) Silly kid!

** Addendum, to show monkey boy himself!

Cheap Entertainment

The kids love bubble wrap.  They'll jump and jump as they try to pop all the little air bubbles.  Bentley and Jake are quite good at it.  Viva?  I won't say it's BECAUSE she's a girl, but it is hard to deny the fact she's not quite as good at jumping as her brothers.  But she enjoys watching them!

Pink Girl, Laugh Boy, and Mr. Picture B

From the picture *vault*, just a few I like....

Crazy kid, taking a picture of himself on the computer screen!

The good lookin' Jake, with our pink Valentine's Day tree.  Cool, yes?

Viva, happy because she's wearing her favorite colors... light pink, pale pink, and some hot pink on her socks for good measure!

Thankful Thursday

This week we're thankful for...

4 year olds!  They're quite fun.
extended family.  It was fun to have a big party on Sunday.
the arts.  We saw Seussical the Musical with the kids on Friday.  They enjoyed it.
Dr.'s & immunizations.  We've come a long way in the medical field and we're thankful for all the resources that help keep us healthier.
new books!  Library books, gifts from family... we've been enjoying all our fun new books this week.

4 Years, 5 Pics

I've been looking through pictures of Bentley, so here is a pic from 0, 1, 2, 3 and now 4!  The kid still has the same expressions, but his face is really starting to grow up.  It's all boy and no chubby toddler now.  Scary and good, all at the same time?  ** Okay.  I lied.  It's 6 pics.  Because a newborn pic doesn't really cover that zero birthday, but it was too cute not to include too!

We love you, Mr. B!

The 4 yr old!

Bentley went into the Dr. for his 4 year check up and some immunizations today.  I was hoping I could convince him to eat some stones yesterday before the weigh in, but when we proposed yesterday morning that he spend all day doing nothing but eating he cried.... I guess that's his idea of a nightmare?!

So he clocked in at 29.8 lbs.  *Sigh*... someday he'll be over 30, right?!  Bentley chose not to say a single word while at the Dr.'s office.  Not even a cry or whimper during the shots.  I asked the Dr. if lots of 4 year olds are that bashful... he said yes, there are a lot of shy 4 yr olds, but it's select few (special ones?!) that don't even slip up with a "lets get out of here" at the end.  So Bentley is special!  I mentioned this to my Mom, apparently I was so stubbornly quiet at my FIVE year visit that I had the words reticent (according to my Dad) and resistant (according to my Mom) put on my charts.  Years later my leg specialist noted in his files that I was his most recalcitrant patient.

So I wonder where Bentley gets the stubborn from?  Hmmm...

Back to Bentley though!  Although I think the word fearsome may go well with four, sometimes the word fun goes quite well too.

Bentley loves being outside.  He loves to run and jump like a crazy person.  He loves hide and seek and board games and puzzles.  He loves reading time and coloring time and trains.  Monster trucks and building toys.  Sticker books.  His favorite stuffed animals is a round cow that goes all over the house with him (along with the beloved blankie, of course)!  Sometimes he likes to work on his writing, but so far no interest in reading.  That's okay though - I'm not at all convinced that reading earlier provides any real benefit to small children!

He likes to get his own way (don't we all?).  He's very articulate.  He likes to police his younger siblings on occasion.  He likes to take pictures.  He loves Opa's iTouch (Opa is the one out of three of us kind enough to share with the small creatures...).

What does he eat?  Not much!  Bagels and cereal, sausage and hot dogs and pepperoni (yes, I know... nitrates).  Steak and chicken.  Pasta and rice.  Peppers and carrots.  Milk.  Crackers.  Peanut Butter.  Blueberries and grapes and strawberries (nice seasonal choices, right?!).  Sugar... cookie dough, jelly beans, and M&Ms!

Looking at this list his likes/dislikes haven't changed much in the food department in the past year.  ALTHOUGH - he has added several proteins to his "foods I like" list.  So that's good!

He's curious.  He asks good questions!  We had a long conversation about the temperature and snow and rain and spring yesterday.  He's a good helper.  He says I love you every night (and says it first!) - I love hearing those spontaneous declarations of love!

All in all?  As has been the case for the past four years, he's still 100% delightsome and precious and we're 100% lucky and thrilled to call him ours!

Happy Happy Happy Birthday Day

Today Bentley turned 4!  I can't believe it, to be honest.  He told me he wanted to turn 6.  Or 11.  So I guess I should be happy he's just 4?  But it seems kind of old to me... and it means 5 is coming next.  Oh my!

We had a lovely, albeit busy, day!  Bentley shares his birthday with Great-Grandma, who turned 80 today - 20 times older than Mr. B!  So, of course, what to do?  A big family party, of course!  I worked on cakes yesterday since we had church before the party today.  A chocolate layer cake with a caramel ganache for Great-Grandma, a rainbow cake for Bentley (thanks Sam!), and a "spare" cake to share - a berry trifle.  Bentley helped me with his cake on Saturday:

We had originally planned to do Great-Grandma's bash, and then after the big family party do Bentley's cake a little later.  Bentley didn't like that plan, as he really wanted to share his cake with everyone.  How could I object to his sweet intentions?  I couldn't!  He talks big but then he hid under his share once everyone started singing happy birthday.  Bashful?  Maybe!  But he sat back up to blow out candles!

And the cake!

Bentley had a heap of presents, he must have been a good little boy?  That, or he has many people who love him!  Thank you to all!

A fun day, and a perfectly perfect little boy.  We can't wait for the next year of fun!  We'll end with some pictures of the birthday boy with some of his adoring fans.

Coming up next week?  Some more cake!  Grandma Karen is in Hawaii right now so we're going to take cake up to celebrate with Grandpa Tim, Grandma Karen, and Tyler when she gets back later this week.   More parties can only be good, we think!

Again - happy birthday to our favorite FOUR year old.  We love you!

The Backpack Girl

I bought Viva this backpack at Christmas time, from Amazon, because it was 1) Fancy Nancy, 2) Shiny Pink, 3) Glittery, and 4) only $5.99!  For some reason I had the impression it was a little kid size backpack.  Uhmmmm... no.  I debated giving it away versus giving it to her, but decided she'd probably love it despite my size confusion.  Sure enough.  The big size isn't going to deter this little girl from her big fancy pink backpack! She looks silly, but she loves it!

Thankful Thursday

It's been a busy week!  We're thankful for...

family.  Aunt Jean is here to visit and the kids love her company!

libraries.  We're lucky to have such a great resource available to us.  We enjoy visiting and finding new books

teeth!  Bentley had his first trip to the dentist, all 20 teeth got a thumbs up.  A good experience!

music.  We took the kids out to eat (all 3 at once, a first for us outside of vacation meals!) and listen to some Folk Festival entertainment.  Outside of the fact that they played rather bawdy music it was all good - the kids seemed quite entranced.

hearts.  Heart foam, heart bead ornaments, heart cookies... we're in heart mode around here with Valentine's Day as the next major holiday!

More Crafty Time

We're in love with foam art.  I think I've mentioned that?  It's cheap, it's easy to clean up, and it occupies little minds for quite a few minutes at a time.  It's also great for their small motor development (I like to think!!!).  They can get the backs off the little shapes, use tooth picks to get the pieces separated, and then create some indent pointillism art on their shapes.  It's all good.

We've also been enjoying quite a bit of beading work.  Pipe cleaners and pony beads = beautiful ornaments for our Valentine's Day tree.  I'll have to put a poster of this lovely beyond compare (it's tinsel!  it's pink!  it has lights!) tree when we have it completely decked out.  Every day or 2 the kids are ready to make more beaded hearts for it.  Whatever will we do when it's time to move on to the next holiday?  Beaded shamrocks might be beyond my skills... !  On a (slightly) more serious note, however, we are having a lot of fun!  This is one of the first crafty type projects that Jake seems quite taken with.  He loves stringing beads, and he's pretty fast at it too!

The Girl and her Brothers

Okay.  I let Jake have his moment in the spot light.  Here's adorable times 2!  Sometimes they even run around and dance together... think they can cut it as competitive ballroom dancers?  If you get 5 points just for cute I think we're off to a good start (in my unbiased opinion, of course).

If Jake doesn't work out, with the dancing thing, Viva is lucky enough to have an alternative partner.  They are awfully cute together too, I think.  They might have to work on coordinating their clothes, but we can do that!

Dapper Jake

Because it's not JUST Viva who gets all fancy looking!  Check out this gorgeous dude.

Conversations from today

Walking into church, Viva was checking out the picture of Christ knocking at the door:

"Mommy, Jesus is STILL knocking at the door!!!".

Walking down the hall in church, as we're getting ready to leave because the twins are having melt downs in nursery.  I asked Viva why she didn't want to say in nursery:

"There's no liquor there!".

And, yes, people heard her.  Sheeesh!  She really needs to work on her licorice word pronunciation.  Could be hard to explain the liquor thing... :-)

Jake, during the ENTIRE Sacrament meeting:

"I am ALL done with nursery.  No more.  Take me home" (sorry kid, you have almost a full year more to go!).

Bentley, in the car, having a conversation with me about his birthday cake.  I asked what kind he wants:

"One with NO frosting, Mommy".

Okay, I guess.... but what KIND of cake do you want?

"A yellow cake!"

I was okay with that, although puzzling how to decorate the yellow cake without frosting (it feels wrong!).

Then he changed his mind:

"Maybe an orange cake.  Or blue?"

I guess he didn't know yellow was a flavor.  I thought he was being extra cake savvy, but really we were just playing a color game!

Tutu too too much fun?!

Genevieve has a new tutu! And, thankfully, she's gotten over her fear of tulle. This tutu came to us courtesy of my secret life as a Coupon Diva. It is very fluffy, perhaps Genevieve can sense it was made by a pro and not the work of her ameuter Mom? Who knows... in any case, she was running around the kitchen in it and asked Opa to take her picture!  She was (and is) quite adorable in it.  She stood, she lounged, she propped her head upon her chin - she's got lots of moves.

And, of course, like all the best models she has a trademark grin.  Check out this big cheesy smile!  Love it!

If I wasn't a KIND Mother, I would also share some pictures of 2 other little tykes in the house who think this new tutu is just "all that".  But, I do have compassion.  So for the sake of their older selves, and for the sake of their father, not a single picture was taken.  But it will be hard to forget the joyful bouncing through the house, tutu all a ruffling, that I saw.  From 3 little cherubs.  :-)

Viva - my future (and current) trouble maker!

My children don't sleep at night.  I'm sure there is a reason why that I should know, but I'm just not getting it yet.  I'll have to keep pondering it.

The other night (close to midnight) Viva was still jumping off the top of her bed onto the blankets and cushions below, and singing songs to keep her brothers awake.  It's not always just her, mind you, but she's impossible to repress.  That's a good AND a bad thing, I suppose!

So this week I decided to try some negative reinforcement.  Forget sticker charts where you earn stars.  I came up with a chart where you get a big letter X if you  misbehave.  Four Xs?  Depending on the kid there are different negative ramifications.

I know, I know.  A bit much for the 2 1/2 year olds.  But Bentley seems to "get it" so that's a start....

Viva, however, totally does NOT get it.  We reviewed the chart right before lights out.  I said:

"Viva, if you get four Xs that means you don't get to pick a story at bedtime tomorrow."

she looked at me, with a blank *so*? expression...

so I upped the ante

"Viva - if you get four Xs I'm going to take ALL your princess stuff away tomorrow"

what did she tell me?

"Oh!  I have princess stuff at Grandma Karen's too"

she then provided some specific details, so I'd know what all to collect if I need to take it all away.  Seems I really phased her, huh?

I headed out of the room.  Not too much later I was called back.  Too much singing and not enough sleeping. I gave them Xs.

After her first X I ramped up my threat:

"Viva, if I have to come back in here you're getting another X AND a spanking".

Guess what?  I had to head back in.  Bentley banged on the door to let me know Viva had pulled Jake's hair.

"Viva, did you pulll Jake/s hair?"

"Yep!  I get a spanking AND an X!!!"  (said with great cheer)

I provided a spank, told her I'd be updating her chart, and headed out.  She said:

"Is that all??"

I heard banging on the door as soon as I left.  She was at the door:

"I want to SEE the X on my chart!!!"

Uhmmm.... no.  I told her to go lay down.  Apparently we parted on good terms, because her closing comment was:

"Mommy, I want to play our new cherries and apples (Hi Ho Cherry O) game in the morning!"

Really.  I don't think she's getting it.  At all.

Note: I realize I also come off as slightly delusional/aka not getting it here.... but sometimes I feel compelled to try SOMETHING!  And participation/buy in from 1 out of 3 is a start.... right?

Thankful Thursday

We (or me?  some me and some us!) are thankful for...

snow!  It's nice to have different seasons to appreciate and play in during the year.

adventures!  Daddy does a great job making time for all of the kids to get 1-on-1 time with him.  It's appreciated by them (and me).

friends & family!  We had a fun day with Aunt Karla & Cheyenne on Monday, and we've been enjoying play time with Patrick and Cassidy.  It's good to stay in touch with the rest of the world....

birthdays and holidays!  Bentley is quite enjoying anticipating his birthday.  When you're little I think that's half the fun (or more?).  We're also enjoying the fun of art for Valentine's Day - it might still be three weeks away, but we've been enjoying the thought of it almost every day through our creations.  It's good to have the small pleasures - aka the chance to look forward to events.

Speaking of Glasses...

the kids went out to play with Grandma today, and they insisted on wearing their shades to protect their eyes from that bright Alaskan sun!  I love kids in snow suits.  they look so unusually round....

They love the snow, I need to get them out there more often!  The boys like to shovel.  I imagine in a year or two they'll be expert fort builders?  We certainly have enough snow around here to do the job... !

Fashion Statement

Grandma's toddler sun glasses collection is still a big hit around here.  What do you do when you have more pairs to wear than children to wear them?  You quadruple up, of course.  Very stylish.  I think someone has been reading you can never have too many accessories (Fancy Nancy says so)!

Those Darn Kids...

Kids say the funniest things!  I love all the "personality" that is showing through now that they are able to express themselves.  (Edit:  I normally, during the hours of the day they are SUPPOSED to be awake, love this personality explosion!  20 minutes ago - 11:30 pm - Viva was still signing Twinkle Twinkle Little Star and Jesus Wants Me for a Sunbeam.  Sheesh!).

So here's some of their more amusing words as of late:

Viva, whenever she wishes to express agreement, says "mmmmm, hmmmm!".  Half of the cute factor is the tone she has down for it.

Jake, whenever he wants to say yes, gets tripped up by his 2 year old self.  No comes out first, followed quickly by a yes.  It's like he just can't help himself.  No is his instinctive response, and then when his brain has a moment to consider the question he can give his final answer!

Bentley, when he is not happy with whatever I say (which is often!), tells me "I have a PLAN - listen".  And then he shares a plan which normally centers around his belief that he, not I, am really the one in charge.  And sometimes I have a hunch (which I don't share with him, of course!) that he might be correct.  Uh oh!

On how gory young children can be:

Bentley (& Jake & Viva to be honest) like to shoot.  They don't have guns.  I don't have a specific anti-gun policy, although I don't really like the idea of toy guns.  I'm more in favor of medieval weapons only in the house.  We have axes and swords!  But, back on topic.  Shooting.  They point their little fingers and make a nice "pssshew, psssshew" sound.  Which I assume is the noise for the trigger being pulled.  On one occasion I told Bentley that if he didn't knock if off, and head straight to time out, I might take the Kung Fu Panda Wii game and break it in half.  What did he tell me?  "Mommy, if you do that, I'll tell Daddy to throw you out a window so a moose can stomp on you".

Sheeeesh!  I know it's not appropriate to laugh when they say things like this.  But you have to wonder where they come up with it.  I promise they haven't been watching any violent TV or movies, and we don't read those kind of books!  I think the young creative little boy mind comes up with these things all on its own.  Fascinating AND scary!

Speaking of violence!  Last night I was summoned to the room because of Jake's crying.  Jake informed me Bentley had bit him.  I asked Bentley if this was true, and he said "maybe".  So I asked Viva, who concurred with Jake's story.  I sent Bentley to time out, and then we asked Jake to show us the bite marks.  First, when we asked "where did Bentley bite you?", he said "I don't know".  Upon further prompting?  "Maybe the bite marks have already faded".  Seriously.  That's what the 2 year old said!  So did he or did he not get bitten?  We'll never know.

During prayer the other night Bentley said he was thankful for Jake, because Jake bit Viva.  Viva interrupted the prayer with "no!  we are not thankful for that.  that was VERY naughty and VERY VERY not nice!".  As least one of them has the house rules down pat.

It's not always violence and gore though!  Last week Viva was feeling poorly, and I had to take her sheets/blankets/pillow case and throw it all in the washer after she spit up on it.  She was quite unhappy about not having HER blankets, and kept throwing off what was offered.  Bentley spent a while trying to convince her that the new loaner blankets were awfully nice and fuzzy, but when that didn't work what did he do?  He gave her his favorite fuzzy Thomas blanket to sleep with.  (and she accepted it, she knew it was a good offer!).  He's a sweetie!

But back to the gore.  Viva likes to ask Great-Grandma: "When are you going to have your other knee cut open so you can get a new one put in"??  She's waiting for Great-Grandma version 2.0 who can run and jump still.  :-)

And there it is.  Some thoughts and words from the minds of my almost 4 year old and 2 1/2 year olds.  I imagine they get even more entertaining with age?

Happy Birthday, Opa!

Today was Opa's birthday!  We won't say how old he is, but suffice it to say he is still quite young.  :-)

The kids are very excited about birthdays now that they're getting a bit older and have some memories to pull from.  Yesterday evening they checked in to make sure Opa was getting a cake (Red Velvet!), and what's more?  They wanted to know exactly what time today we'd get to eat it.

This morning Viva woke up, and when I asked her what today was she knew it was Opa's birthday!  She headed downstairs right away to say Happy Birthday.  What a sweet girl.

They are also concerned about presents.  They like to see gifts being opened.  So today the twins helped me wrap up Opa's gift, and then Jake informed me that we needed to get Opa a balloon.  Off to the store we went!  Viva picked a card, all on her own, and Jake picked the balloon.

We had roladin, dumplings, and red cabbage (Opa's traditional birthday dinner).  All 3 kids liked the meat, but apparently the texture of dumplings isn't all that in the eyes of the toddlers.  More for us, right?  After dinner we had cake and presents.  Then Bentley suggested that Opa might want to watch some Dr. Who (they know it's a favorite show of his) - off they went downstairs!

We hope you had a fun birthday, Opa!  Thanks for being so good to us, we love having you around!

Thankful Thursday

This week we are....

thankful for the sun?  We haven't seen it much yet but that makes us anticipate it's arrival all the more.  The kids have park time on the brain, but when we venture outside they want to go back in - they're not "real" Alaskans yet I guess.  :-)

still loving eggnog!  It's about at the end of it's season, but it was a good run for Jake & Viva.  At the store earlier today Jake said "I want to go home and have a glass of eggnog!".  It's quite the favorite.

happy to have Great-Grandma home.  We missed her!

thankful for our health.  We've been relatively healthy and happy for weeks now - that's some kind of record, right?!  (Knock on wood)

loving Memory and our new Match Up game.  We've been playing some of the fun new games the kids received for Christmas, they're really into games right now!

Grandma Vicki's Visit

Grandma Vicki came to visit us for 5 days at Christmas time, and we all had a delightful time!  The kids spent the entire week before her visit checking in, daily, about when she'd be arriving (time is still a little relative to them I guess?!).

What fun did Grandma Vicki have?  We opened presents, sang songs, read lots and lots of books with us, brought some fun new crafts, played with our new duplos, trekked out with us for  long walks to the mailbox, played some Wii, and in general helped with the care & feeding of the wild animals (thanks, Grandma!)!

We had a great time and are already looking forward to the next visit!

Tub Time

When we first moved into our new house, all three kids liked taking a bath in our big Jacuzzi tub. Jake disliked the jets, so he always got out before we turned them on. Lately however, he's unhappy about getting into the tub at all. When Bentley and Viva take a bath, Jake takes a shower (his preferred method of bathing) and then watches his siblings play in the tub. He really likes it when the Jacuzzi action produces big soap bubbles--as long as he's not in the tub.